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Veterans Day – Honoring My Husband

I am so glad we have a national day to honor all of our Veterans.  They should be honored every day.  My special Veteran Jim passed away on August 13, 2020.  He served our country in the Air Force.  He is buried in the National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona in Phoenix.  It is such a blessing to be able to honor him again this year.

 

It is such a beautiful cemetery.  Every grave and all the grounds are so lovingly cared for.  I am so happy that Jim has been buried there.

For Veterans Day and Holidays, every grave is marked with a flag.  It is such a spectacular sight to see.  46,000+ flags honoring each Veteran.

The grounds are always open to the public.  I visit Jim 2 to 3 times a week.  I miss him so much.  My emotions are still fragile and raw, but I am trying to honor him by carrying on with our life the best I can.  I know I have been blessed more than some with the 36 years we shared.  Every day of those 36 years, he cared, loved, and provided for me.  Most of all he made sure I knew he loved me.

He always gave the best hugs and I loved the way he would hold me.  I think I miss that the most.   The National Memorial Cemetery will allow me to be buried with him when my time comes.  That truly is a blessing that I can join him again someday.  Every day I try to honor him as a wife that was blessed to be married to such a remarkable man.

I love you with all my heart.

27 Comments

  1. Sara
    November 11, 2020 / 8:21 am

    I think of you often and keep you in my prayers. I also appreciate the many men and the sacrifices made by their families making it possible to enjoy the freedoms we take for granted. Hugs and comfort to you.

  2. Sandra Amos
    November 11, 2020 / 8:28 am

    This is a beautiful tribute to a Veteran and your husband. I know what you are feeling and as they say, “It is the price we pay for loving someone so completely”. May God bless you and your family.

  3. November 11, 2020 / 8:31 am

    This is such a special and loving tribute, Marty. I think of you all the time and continue to pray for you and your family. I’m thankful we have men like Jim to fight for freedoms so many never have the chance to enjoy. We need more heroes like him and the families that stand beside them that’s for sure 🙂 Sending you big hugs and tons of love, CoCo

  4. Ann
    November 11, 2020 / 8:46 am

    Thank you for your husband’s service. May you continue to find peace and healing through your memories. God bless you and your loved ones.

  5. Maureen
    November 11, 2020 / 8:58 am

    Marty what a wonderful and sobering tribute to you husband. My husband is a veteran too and I am proud of him for his service to our country. May God give you the spiritual blessing to carry on today and until you and your husband are united again in the afterlife.

  6. November 11, 2020 / 9:00 am

    Thank you for sharing. Blessings and prayers to you!
    And thanking God and ALL who have served and sacrificed for our great country and freedom❣️

  7. Gina
    November 11, 2020 / 9:14 am

    Blessings and peace. I will continue to pray for you.

  8. November 11, 2020 / 9:26 am

    Marty, God bless your Jim for his service to our country and the other men/women who have served in the past and currently. God bless you for the relationship and years you and Jim had for such a true love is rare. I believe your Jim is every where you are and never far away – just like God. Hugs to you my friend……….

  9. Sheila Montgomery
    November 11, 2020 / 9:27 am

    What a beautiful to your sweet husband and Veteran!

  10. November 11, 2020 / 10:35 am

    A beautiful tribute. God Bless our veterans!!!!!

  11. carol
    November 11, 2020 / 10:36 am

    The photo of the two of you is so evident of the deep love and wonderful life you shared, Marty.
    God Bless Jim and you for keeping his memory alive. You do honor him by living a good life
    and carrying on, despite how difficult some days can be. Onward and upward!

  12. November 11, 2020 / 10:40 am

    With a tear and smile, I thank your husband for his service, Marty. God rest his soul.

  13. November 11, 2020 / 11:01 am

    Your Jim was such a special husband, grandpa, friend and Veteran. Keeping prayers going for you to find strength as you move forward in your grief. Thank you to all the men and women that serve our country and keep us safe. xoxo Kris

  14. November 11, 2020 / 11:47 am

    What a precious loving tribute to your wonderful husband. How comforting knowing that you can join him in the future. I ask for God’s blessings on you and your family.

  15. Cherie
    November 11, 2020 / 12:50 pm

    What a lovely tribute you wrote of Jim’s service and your marriage. We found that good man are blessed in many ways, fate stepped in for my marriage to Jon. People are brought together in mysterious ways, aren’t they?

  16. November 11, 2020 / 12:59 pm

    Thank you for sharing, we will continue to pray with you. I have admired you and your family since you started your blog. My husband Joe (we have been married 54 years) have been thinking of moving too, sizing down, staying close to family and friends. Marty, you have always been a leader for so many of , please know we are with you now, our hearts are grieving and we feel your loss of your husband Jim. Thoughtfully, Penny

  17. Virginia Ricci
    November 11, 2020 / 1:45 pm

    Praying for you, Marty…I know how difficult the holidays can be losing a loved one. God bless and keep you, and yours in his care.

  18. Michele M / Finch Rest
    November 11, 2020 / 2:21 pm

    Bawling heavy tears in memory of Jim – and honoring him – and honoring his love for you and you for him.

    Please know I think of you often, dear friend. I pray for you daily. Peace be with you. Hugs.

    God bless all our Veterans, living and passed who have given service so that we may be free.

    Special prayers for the POWs that are still missing.

    ♥♥

  19. November 11, 2020 / 3:33 pm

    Oh, Marty, I am crying big tears for you and your beloved Jim. Eric and I would often go to that cemetery on holidays to visit. It truly is a lovely place. I thank your husband so very much for his service. Blessings dear one.

  20. Ramona Strojevs
    November 11, 2020 / 5:47 pm

    So very beautiful. I hardly know you, yet I feel as though I do. Take care of yourself and be gentle.

    Fondly,
    Ramona
    Lakefield ON Canada

  21. November 12, 2020 / 4:06 am

    Marty, what a loving tribute to your beloved Jim. I am so thankful for his service. Blessings sweet lady.

  22. London Lacy
    November 12, 2020 / 5:59 am

    I did not know that Jim was an air force veteran. That just makes my memories of him that much sweeter. He was a great boss at Gardener’s World when I worked with him in 1992-1993. Truly missed in the Master Gardener World.

  23. November 12, 2020 / 8:09 pm

    What a beautiful tribute, Marty. Thinking of you often.

  24. November 12, 2020 / 10:38 pm

    Thanks for continuing to post and share with us. It must be so hard for you to have a missing link.
    “You never know when the last time will be the last time”
    In our prayers every day.

  25. Carol Liebst
    November 13, 2020 / 12:46 pm

    Thinking of you as the holidays approach. This year will be different for you, and I trust your family will be there to lift you when you are down, just as you and your posts lift your extended ‘family’ out here in blog land. My dad was a WWII vet, and he and my mother are buried in the National Cemetery in Springfield, MO.

    • November 13, 2020 / 12:58 pm

      My family will all be together for Thanksgiving and Christmas, so they will help me through these two holidays. These holidays will be hard and so different without Jim, but I hope we can all remember him with sweet memories. I am so glad your mom and dad are buried together at the National Cemetery in Springfield. Such an honor. God Bless.

  26. Martha Crawford
    November 16, 2020 / 1:03 pm

    Marti-I don’t check your site very often so I was very much saddened by the news of your loss. As we all, you will be in my thoughts and virtual love being sent your way. Thank you for sharing.

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